Bdsm

Bedroom bondage.

Bdsm is an abbreviation of bondage and sado masochism. Of course there are lighter areas of masochism so don’t feel this may not be for you if you have seen the stronger side on some websites . There is light bondage using specialized soft Japanese rope. This does not leave burns like regular rope and is a great way to get into this fetish activity .

If your with a trusted partner you might want to use this type of rope to get tied to your bed, or indeed have your limbs tied together. Bondage gives an escape and a complete lack of power over to your master or dominatrix.

Other items like restraints and collars can be added to the rope to give an added feel of eroticism. You should never tie rope, even soft rope around your submissives neck; it can tighten and restrict breathing.

Ideally a dominant should always be with the submissive when tied up, in case they get into difficulty. Use a leather collar and tie the soft-rope to the neck collars “D” or “O” rings, if in any doubt. As any rope should never be directly tied to the neck, and then tied around the limbs. If a sub pulls or flexes on this with their arms and legs it could be very dangerous.

Sado masochism is of course for the more extreme players. This form of kinky sex is where the sub gets sexual pleasure from torture and pain. This can vary from light spanking, to being whipped where blood can be drawn.

It is up to the couple to agree limits and stick to them. Play can always be developed where it may become more vigorous later on. But going beyond a subs limits will destroy trust and pleasure may not be attained.

Take things gradual bondage is not a race.