Bondage sex.

Roleplay and escape.

Bondage sex is one of the most popular fantasies for men and women. The thought of being both helpless and at their partner’s mercy gives a sense of loss of power and escaping the normal everyday lives. Pictures of women in bondage of course has been around in literature and adult publications for a very long time.

The most famous bondage erotic book is the Story of O which most fans will be aware of. The bondage fetish is a deep seated one, and a profitable one for those that supply the vast array of equipment.

You wont have to go far on the net to find equipment and erotica containing bondage and sex and fetish themes. This is a big business and couples can use both the clothing and accessories, such as collars and restraints to enhance their lovemaking.

For literature seek out the books of F. E. Campbell and the bondage pictures of Robert Bishop.

Equipment suppliers are vast and vary in quality. There are fun items that can be supplied for hen and stag parties to the pure leather restraints for everyday use, which of course are costlier.

If you’re starting out, perhaps a few quality items will be sufficient and you can develop trust between you and your partner. Use some bondage rope, which is cheap and most positions can be performed.

A safe word is most important when any form of bondage sex is used. this is a chosen word before the roleplay begins to STOP proceedings. Its very important for safety of the bound individual that that dominant adheres to this - and frees the bound person straight away, on hearing this "word".

More commonly the word will not be "stop" or "help" as you will want to use these words while in roleplay. So a word like "stone-wall" might be used (here as an example) pick a word your not likely to use in regular conversation or say by accident. If the submissive women or man is gagged you will need to give a hand signal or gesture to be freed from your binds.