Femdom is of course an abbreviation for female domination. There are so many magazines and websites that’s devoted to it, you could consider female domination as the most obvious fetish activity.
The female is often dressed in rubber or pvc clothing, and will carry a whip or another type of flogging device. The classic appearance is the rubber catsuit with thigh boots, either in black or red. But there is so much apparel available this is entirely up to you.
Between couples the wife (or partner) will use this as a form or roleplay. This can be enhanced by using bondage, humiliation and using the submission of the husband for her own sexual needs. This again could be agreed before hand, or for long term couples this can even go so far as a lifestyle choice.
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By the amount of personal adverts in alternative lifestyle magazines and internet sites, this does appear to be the most common choice for many. The sub male may want to dedicate himself to one female - who will become his mistress.
Swingers or alternative clubs cater for couples who would wish to indulge in this type of activity. It’s often ideal as they can then try out items of bondage furniture or use a fully equipped dungeon. They may not be able to do this due to restrictions of where they live or privacy issues, children at home etc.etc.
Female domination has a great many of specialized websites devoted to it. As with any activity, you may wish to use a safe word during bondage . A great deal of trust must be built on before the more extreme areas of fem domination are utilised.