Finding a genuine bdsm master

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How do you go about finding a genuine bdsm master for females or couples – even gay males? - it is not as straight forward as it might first appear.

When you check out the bdsm dating scene , there are literally tons of guys out there. They normally outnumber the females and couples 4-1.

So it should be easy to find a male playmate? Well no. Firstly you get the vast majority of guys who are purely "cyber masters" which means they love the net and you'll never meet them. Even those that say they will, often string along many people. This is the worst side to the net.

Also remove the married guys and the others that are just in it for the fun and have genuine relationships at home. Then your not left with many genuine guys that have bdsm experience and will actually meet you.

A recent report suggested that it’s about 80% of cyber males and married men that act out the roles of master but will never go any further, but it might be higher.

So what to look for in finding a genuine bdsm master:-

Ignore one liner email replies to your profile, they are a waste of time.

Abusive emails should be ignored - unless you specifically have asked for this.

Look for males that have actually posted good pictures (where applicable) and have put a long in-depth profile together (these men really are seeking someone).

If a couple or female is expecting too much - expect to be disappointed. Many ask for the impossible and wonder why they are still searching 12 months later - be realistic.

Chemistry is better than good looks - ok; if you’re really after a muscle hunk dominant you will find your chosen master harder to track down. But you still can't gurantee a handsome master is still a terrible date.

Remember a lot of guys may have posted fake profiles (and fake pics) and the larger dating sites sadly are full of them. So although it appears there are millions of guys out there, the real genuine ones should be held onto.

One day hopefully you will be able to say "he is my master". So find some common ground with people you actually like chatting with and take it from there. Ask for a number of pics, and develop a friendship first. Then finding a genuine bdsm master should be a lot easier.

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